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Mar. 4th, 2009

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Generally speaking, all going well here.

Amelia got a bit of a snotty cold last week, and went rather downhill on Friday. Her breathing sounded awful. We took her to the doctor (who wasn't in the least concerned about her rattly breathing), and he discovered she had a bit of an ear infection, which was making her miserable. She was prescribed Amoxicillin, which she takes easily enough, and she's much improved now. She's still got an amazingly snotty nose though. As she will ill on Saturday Trash didn't bother going up to Middlesbrough to see them play Liverpool. It was obviously going to be a loss for Middlesbrough anyway :-) [Non-football people: amazingly, Boro won 2-0!]

We also took Amelia into my office yesterday to meet my workmates. She was transfixed by my colleague Godwin ... from Nigeria! Thinking about it, that could quite easily be the first time she's ever seen a black person. You could see her little brain thinking "what?! do humans come in this colour too?!" :-) It did bring home to me what a male dominated industry IT is though. I've spent a few weeks in "woman's world", doing things like going to Tiny Tots and doing the school run, so I've been surrounded by large quantities of women. My office is a huge nest of specky boy nerds. This is one of the reasons I talk to woman a lot when I go out. I see plenty of men at work.

We went to a parents' evening meeting with Evie's teacher last night, and she seems to be progressing fine at school. Apparently, she's moving away from playing with the boy from across the road (Matty) and playing more with the girls now. Her literacy and numeracy skill are as expected, considering she's 4! :-) She has a few cute 'confusions' in her learning: she mixes up 'h' and 'n', due to the difference in the length of the stem. The teacher did tell us that she had noticed no change in Evie's behaviour since Amelia arrived, which is good. Often the teachers can notice a change in a child when a younger sibling arrives.

We had another social worker visit this morning, which went well. Amelia was a little poppet throughout and a living advert for "I am a well attached little child".

I think I may try to get out somewhere soon and see some people. I think I've stayed in for about three weeks now. The only interrupted night's sleep I've had have been due to Evie though. She still sometimes wakes up about once a week with some spurious issue. Last night her quilt fell off her bed and knocked her lego model over. I wondered off to sort this out, and on my return Trash queried if Evie's leg had fallen off, so loud had been the wailing. Amelia has actually always slept through, even when ill. To be honest, Amelia can sleep for England - she loves it. Weekend mornings seem to feature Evie and I getting up at some god-forsaken hour (06:30 or similar), then later prodding Trash and Amelia out of bed at 09:15 because we need to be getting on with stuff. Amelia is sleeping now, which is why I have the chance to bash this entry in.

Evie has been playing with her Lego a lot recently. Not quite sure why - she wasn't too bothered for many years, and it's a chunky old set of Duplo blocks. Possibly because I do stop Amelia from playing with it, so it's quite clearly "her toy". I really enjoy playing with Lego with her though. When I was a sprog, my Lego was a really important toy to me. I used to build huge quantities of spaceships, rockets, moonbases, etc. When I tired of a model it would suffer a terrible crash into my bedroom wall. I find clicking Lego bricks together very therapeutic. So I'm now searching on ebay to get her a load of normal Lego.

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From:[info]puritypersimmon
Date:March 4th, 2009 12:18 pm (UTC)
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James loves playing with his Duplo, even though he's only 10.5 months old and it's not supposed to be suitable for kids under 1.5 years! He's not got the hang of clicking the blocks together (hardly surprising, really), but he loves taking shapes you've made apart and throwing the blocks around...
Glad things are going well with the new(ish) arrival :-)
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From:[info]vin_petrol
Date:March 4th, 2009 04:28 pm (UTC)
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he loves taking shapes you've made apart and throwing the blocks around...

Hmmmm. Amelia likes doing much the same thing! :-)
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From:[info]rich_r
Date:March 4th, 2009 12:19 pm (UTC)
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I've got a huge amount of Lego if you're interested, mostly dating from the 1980s. I might be a bit reluctant to let some of the Technical stuff go, but you're welcome to take a look.

I find it useful for working things out before making them in wood, metal or whatever. I've also got my old 1980s Meccano (plus a bit of my dad's early 1960s stuff too), which I've sadly been stealing bits from to fix things on cars and other things.
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From:[info]vin_petrol
Date:March 4th, 2009 04:29 pm (UTC)
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I've just won 500 various bricks on ebay, so we'll see how Evie gets on with those.
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From:[info]sprezzatoura
Date:March 4th, 2009 12:27 pm (UTC)
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We have a parents evening tonight! :-)

If Evie feels like hanging out with a big, grown up seven year-old, we could meet up this weekend?

ETA: K has loads of Lego, but it's not Lego like it used to be, it's special pink GIRLS Lego for building stables and castles and things with!

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From:[info]vin_petrol
Date:March 5th, 2009 09:50 am (UTC)
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If Evie feels like hanging out with a big, grown up seven year-old, we could meet up this weekend?

Just checking our schedules now. Evie has a packed social life at the moment. Her class contains "the second half of the academic year", so come March 1 the number of birthday parties she's being invited to has shot up. She certainly goes to more parties than I do! :-) Plus she does ballet on a Saturday morning and swimming on Saturday afternoon.

I'll talk to Trash and email you.

ETA: K has loads of Lego, but it's not Lego like it used to be, it's special pink GIRLS Lego for building stables and castles and things with!

Yeh, I've noticed that. Not sure I approve! In my aged opinion Lego should be 'generic' and you use your imagination to make of it what you will. Having said that, I did buy Evie "town" Lego off ebay, so it's a more domestically oriented set of bricks. When it arrives I'll show Trash the ways I used to mutate town Lego into 'space' Lego in my imagination (e.g. fence panels laid sideways make thruster motors).
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From:[info]foxy76
Date:March 4th, 2009 12:45 pm (UTC)
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'This is one of the reasons I talk to woman a lot when I go out'

Oh Vincent, no-one actually believes this!

Glad things are going so well at home :-)

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From:[info]steer
Date:March 4th, 2009 01:05 pm (UTC)
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Oh Vincent, no-one actually believes this!

Well, maybe it is *one* of the reasons -- but I bet it's well down the list.
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From:[info]vin_petrol
Date:March 4th, 2009 04:30 pm (UTC)
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Bah! It's almost as if I've got some form of reputation! :-P
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From:[info]keris
Date:March 4th, 2009 12:52 pm (UTC)
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:) :) :) :) :)
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From:[info]wendles
Date:March 4th, 2009 01:04 pm (UTC)
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This is one of the reasons I talk to woman a lot when I go out.

Yeah huh. I bet I know two more!
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From:[info]vin_petrol
Date:March 4th, 2009 04:32 pm (UTC)
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I have no idea what you mean :-P
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From:[info]steer
Date:March 4th, 2009 01:08 pm (UTC)
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Lego is awesome. It totally rocks. I still have mindstorms lego for doing toptastic lego things.
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From:[info]vin_petrol
Date:March 4th, 2009 04:32 pm (UTC)
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I had to resist Mindstorms. I could see me playing with it for hours. Trash would be a Mindstorms widow and Evie and Amelia Mindstorms orphans.

The only problem I can see in my immediate future is that Evie seems to want to build houses with Lego, rather than moonbases and spacestations.
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From:[info]angryangeltoo
Date:March 4th, 2009 08:58 pm (UTC)

There are

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Lego "Girl" sets with flowers and all that stuff but do be careful as real lego is a choking hazard
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From:[info]vin_petrol
Date:March 5th, 2009 09:52 am (UTC)

Re: There are

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Amelia is Not Allowed to play with Evie's Lego, so the choking hazard is understood. That particular hazard is probably the one we worry about the most at the moment. She's still putting lots of things in her mouth, and will do for a month or two yet.

I had lots of Lego when I was a sprog, and (according to my mother) sometimes the tiny bits would show up in my younger sisters' poo. Eek!
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